Are you experiencing
Anger, Frustration, Resentment, Guilt, Jealousy,
Disappointment,
Despair,
Distrust,
Disrespect,
Depression,
Feelings of loneliness, failure, regret, rebelliousness or just had enough ............... What Did I do wrong?
There is an experience of the greiving, the guilt of what did I do wrong?, the Blame - it was all their fault,
The mind becomes full of many toxic thoughts that contaminate what was once a loving relationship
and now there is so much criticism and blame that everything becomes very dirty, unresourceful and a place of distrust.
Are you blaming yourself, your partner, your children or your family
for things not working out? How is the Blame game working for you? Is it making you feel good?
No ................. so what is it you can do to stop blaming and start livng again?
Are you creating hell for yourself and your ex?
You cannot forgive for what has happened and been decided, you feel like rubbish so why should he/she feel
any better than I do?
I am going to make it as hard as I can for him/her? They are not going to have it easy - no way!!
How is this working for you?
Is this how you want to feel for the rest of your life?
We only get one go at life ........... start living and enjoying yours now ............ move on, learn how to turn these toxic thoughts
and games around so everyone is a winner.
Are the children suffering because of the contaminated communication between yourself and your ex?
Especially when there are children involved, the welfare of them becomes critical as they experience the warfare
happening between their parents and this can have long lasting detrimental and pychological effects.
The children have not asked for this to happen - so why are you making them suffer for your bad choices?
Create and become excellent role models for your children, so they do not have to experience the same treatment
later on in their own lives. Carefully recreate clear communication, reassure them that there is respect for their
other parent, that it was a decision between you and your partner
and that they will always be special in your life.
Was there a case of Infedelity?
If there has been a case of infedelity in the marriage, Trust becomes a big issue, so much so that
'all males' or 'all females' are bad and when this is taken into every day life, msitrust occurs on a regular basis,
which creates fear, anxiety, depression.
This also gets taken into
the workplace, work becomes unproductive and everyone suffers. Not a good place to be.
Build your sense of power and create a new strong person with a healthy sense of self worth,
creating your own safe a rewarding 'power zone' . Discover the wonderful true authentic self you were born to be.
Access your own Personal genius inside you.
Forgiveness
it is not
always easy to accept that you will forgive, forgiveness is not about giving the other person anything -
forgiveness is about freeing yourself from the hurt, resentment, etc you have imprisoned yourself in being.
To Refuse to Forgive is to continue hurting yourself.
Keeping ‘Inner Monsters’ as a part of you and this requires
Negative, self destructive energy.
Use Your Energy to
Forgive and embrace
the joys of life.
FORGIVENESS
Is the only real prescription for the pain you feel over someone else’s behaviour.
The healing choice
is yours to Make
FORGIVENESS is not something you do for someone else It Is something you do for yourself
Give Yourself
the gift of FORGIVENESS
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